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Raising White Kids: Bringing Up Children in a Racially Unjust America Paperback – February 5, 2019
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With a foreword by Tim Wise, Raising White Kids is for families, churches, educators, and communities who want to equip their children to be active and able participants in a society that is becoming one of the most racially diverse in the world while remaining full of racial tensions. For white people who are committed to equity and justice, living in a nation that remains racially unjust and deeply segregated creates unique conundrums.
These conundrums begin early in life and impact the racial development of white children in powerful ways. What can we do within our homes, communities and schools? Should we teach our children to be “colorblind”? Or, should we teach them to notice race? What roles do we want to equip them to play in addressing racism when they encounter it? What strategies will help our children learn to function well in a diverse nation?
Talking about race means naming the reality of white privilege and hierarchy. How do we talk about race honestly, then, without making our children feel bad about being white? Most importantly, how do we do any of this in age-appropriate ways?
While a great deal of public discussion exists in regard to the impact of race and racism on children of color, meaningful dialogue about and resources for understanding the impact of race on white children are woefully absent. Raising White Kids steps into that void.
"Most white Americans didn't get from our own families the concrete teaching and modeling we needed to be active in the work of racial justice ourselves, let alone to feel equipped now to talk about race with and teach anti-racism to our children. There is so much we need to learn and it's urgent that we do so. But the good news is: we can," says Jennifer Harvey.
- Print length320 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherAbingdon Press
- Publication dateFebruary 5, 2019
- Dimensions5.5 x 0.73 x 8.5 inches
- ISBN-101501878077
- ISBN-13978-1501878077
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Jen speaks and publishes with numerous academic and public outlets. Her essay Are We Raising Racists? spent nearly a week on the New York Times “ten most read pieces” list. She has written for and appeared on Good Morning America, CNN, NPR, Sojourners on-line, The Conversation and other national media outlets. Visit the author online at www.jenniferharvey.org.
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- Publisher : Abingdon Press
- Publication date : February 5, 2019
- Edition : Reprint
- Language : English
- Print length : 320 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1501878077
- ISBN-13 : 978-1501878077
- Item Weight : 12 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 0.73 x 8.5 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #671,380 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #705 in Civil Rights & Liberties (Books)
- #1,190 in Discrimination & Racism
- #1,522 in Christian Social Issues (Books)
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Dr. Jennifer Harvey is a writer, speaker, and a professor of religion and ethics at Drake University. Her work focuses on racial justice and white anti-racism. Dr. Harvey's most recent books include Raising White Kids: Bringing Up Children in a Racially Unjust America and Dear White Christians: For Those Still Longing for Racial Reconciliation.
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Customers find the book to be an excellent resource that offers practical advice through examples and conversations. Moreover, they appreciate its inspirational content, with one customer noting how it provides specific examples of conversations and approaches. Additionally, the writing style receives positive feedback, with one customer describing it as very thoughtfully written and not heady or dumbed-down.
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Customers find the book informative and practical, with one review highlighting how it provides guidance through examples and conversations, while another notes how it offers specific suggestions for engaging white children.
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Customers appreciate the writing style of the book, with one noting it is not heady or dumbed-down, while another finds it very easy to read.
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- Reviewed in the United States on July 14, 2018Kids spend a great deal of time in school; so raising them is the province, not just of parents, but of teachers as well. In my 20-plus years of teaching, I have seen so many of the truths that Jennifer Harvey communicates in Raising White Kids born out. Her examples and practical suggestions for engaging white kids on the subject of racial injustice make this work unique and help allay some of the helplessness felt by those who wish they could do something but don’t know what to do. I highly recommend it to anyone who works with children and young adults.
Harvey’s work resonated with me because of my own experience as an educator. For the past two years I have been involved with organizing speaker symposiums and advisory times (in conjunction with a student cohort) at the Christian, affluent, predominantly white high school where I teach. The student and faculty cohort chose to address the topics of race and then privilege for the first two symposiums. Some valuable and much-needed conversation and connections came about as a result. However, in spite of our attempts to equip students with knowledge and examples of productive action, we experienced a significant degree of backlash from parents whose concerns included wanting to know why their children were being made “to feel bad” about being white.
Some students, while convinced of our need to have such discussions, expressed trepidation at how their peers would respond. In the absence of much groundwork being laid regarding what it is to be Christian and white in a racially unjust America, a growing awareness of racial tension manifests itself as “anxiety, guilt, cognitive dissonance, or even anger when race does come up” (Harvey, 10). I have witnessed all of these reactions.
There are a multitude of reasons that both parents and students are uncomfortable with such conversations, but parental anxiety often stems from fear and a desire to protect. We want to shield kids from heartbreak, but they will be heartbroken. It’s part of being human. We should want for them to be made whole, more fully human. As Harvey says, “white supremacy malforms my humanity, constrains my life, compromises my spirit” (119). Knowing that heartbreak is inevitable, what would we have break our children’s hearts? Shallow self-interest or a painful empathy that springs from the ability to recognize human dignity and injustice?
In Raising White Kids Harvey moves beyond theory to offer realistic advice about how to appropriately talk about and model racial engagement with children and young adults. It’s a tool that will greatly benefit those who read it and those they impact.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 13, 2022Although my kids were grown when I read this book, I found it valuable for my "inner child" as well as adult discussions. The author provides such real-life and compassionate examples of white parents floundering in their sincere efforts to have discussions around race. This book is a terrific way for white parents and kids to start their discussions early, realizing, "identity is complicated. On the one hand, we need to see and acknowledge race and racial identity. At the same time, doing so...always runs the risk of reducing people to labels or implying everyone who shares that identity label is the same..."
In no way does the author suggest that white people be centered in the conversation of race in America. Black voices must be centered, but how does that look in white lives? How do white parents get out of the way, what tools have they provided their kids to hear? What she is saying is that white people have to stop using the meaningless "color blind" approach that often just overlays the uncomfortable sense of white guilt. She shows great empathy and provides specific examples of conversations and approaches.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 16, 2019I cannot fully express to Jennifer Harvey my gratefulness for the immense gift of Raising White Children. I chose this book for our school equity committee reading club for its gentle spirit, practical guidance, and careful attention to the complicated dynamics of raising race-conscious white children in an increasingly racially isolated society. Her book is a gift and a joy. It instills tool and guidance through examples and conversations, psychological analysis, and social theory. It is not heady or dumb-downed. For parents who fear guilt or shame - dive in! Harvey is a compassionate and wise teacher. I wish that every parent could go home from an adoption center or hospital with this book in tow. The parents in our study group concur.
- Reviewed in the United States on July 12, 2020Picked up this book after chatting with mom friends about how best to raise kids to be anti-racist. This book challenged my assumptions about the best way to do that and gave me some great ideas. It could have been shorter and still been helpful - I skimmed a bit - but definitely a book worth consulting and considering.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 4, 2020Some extremely helpful sections on how to navigate racial matters with little kids in a way that meets their developmental level (it talks about older kids too but I felt already more equipped to handle that). Im a White woman who grew up with a basic “color-blind” upbringing, and Ive read a lot for my own adult learning on racism and injustice. But for example, it was tricky to educate my young kids on things like prejudice without feeling like I was actually teaching them prejudices by bringing them up at a young age. This book helped IMMENSELY with those sorts of quandaries. I would recommend it for any parent of a white kid.
- Reviewed in the United States on December 15, 2020Rev. Dr. Harvey is authentic, encouraging, and inspiring. Her personal stories and willingness to share her questions and doubts alongside her brilliant intellect and deep wisdom draw the reader in and allow the right kind of heartbreak. The ache and pain of recognizing racial injustice and racist systems is necessary for white parents like me to tell the truth to my kids and invite them to journey with me in learning ways to resist in ways that may change the world. I am inspired and grateful for this beautiful book!
- Reviewed in the United States on May 27, 2019While this book is titled "raising white kids" it is actually a book everyone whose kids are in school with white kids should read as well - it gives a lot of insight into how white parents often shush or re-direct conversations of race and (unintentionally for the most part) further the superiority/inferiority narrative so prevalent in this country. It is a "must read" for white parents and I think many parents of color would find it enlightening as well.